Communication?? Yes its important !

Yes, I agree takes a lot of guts to talk to someone about how you feel for them and how would you like to see things in a different way. Be sure you express it in the right way. Only if we speak can our opinions will be taken into account.

if you want to communicate effectively, defend what you say. Once you have said something you can never go backward; you must back it up. Pick up the words that will express exactly what you are thinking of. Do not beat around the bush and keep the other person solving the puzzle for you. Do not expect the person to be as good as to read your mind all the time.

Communication is not always about talking, one must also be a good listener. If you do not listen and understand what the other person is saying then all goes down the drain. Understanding plays a very important part here. This is how a trust and a bond is built in a relationship and a balance is maintained.

If you are having serious communication issues, write down your feelings in forms of letters and cards and send it across to the person. In this way you have communicated your feelings also and plus you ended up doing something nice for your loved one. Do not make this a daily habit as it will not be appreciated all the time.