Can you really get over anything and move on?

It's really hard to say this but yes it's actually true. We live n a different world now. People move on much quickly then we think. They make decisions practically and we can be emotional fools to stay In the same place hoping and wishing for them to come back. That's definitely not happening. 

They meet new people find new happiness and new reasons to smile. We compromise, cause we cannot be like them. It's just not us. For us things are different. We smile at the world and hide all the tsunamis and hurricanes and nuclear bombs are bursting at the same time within us. We show up a brave face to the world but yes we have learned an important lesson in life, not to do the same mistake again. Generally it doesn't happen again coz the consequences already faced are such high we really dun wanna go through them again. We definitely don't. 

We are broken from inside but evolve so strongly that we can stand any calamity in the world. We are ready to face the world with a new face and new us. Small things don't seem to bother us anymore, they seems childish stuff and we aim for higher stakes and that's when you know.... You have grown up and out shined yourself. You have successfully passed another test of life and ready for the next level. 

By the time new level is uploaded we get little bit of sunshine in our lives to refresh and be prepared for more. This time stakes are higher... Be careful and play wisely. Don't fall even if you do get up and hit harder... Fight it out and be the winner you always wanted to see within you. 

Communication?? Yes its important !

Yes, I agree takes a lot of guts to talk to someone about how you feel for them and how would you like to see things in a different way. Be sure you express it in the right way. Only if we speak can our opinions will be taken into account.

if you want to communicate effectively, defend what you say. Once you have said something you can never go backward; you must back it up. Pick up the words that will express exactly what you are thinking of. Do not beat around the bush and keep the other person solving the puzzle for you. Do not expect the person to be as good as to read your mind all the time.

Communication is not always about talking, one must also be a good listener. If you do not listen and understand what the other person is saying then all goes down the drain. Understanding plays a very important part here. This is how a trust and a bond is built in a relationship and a balance is maintained.

If you are having serious communication issues, write down your feelings in forms of letters and cards and send it across to the person. In this way you have communicated your feelings also and plus you ended up doing something nice for your loved one. Do not make this a daily habit as it will not be appreciated all the time.